The Space Between Knowing And Trusting Your Intuition

You already know what you want

If you overthink every decision, you might recognize these thoughts: “I’m going in circles.” “I’ve thought about this so much and I’m no closer than when I started.” “I just don’t know what to do.”

Over the last six months, I’ve worked with more than 60 women navigating different decisions, questions, and chapters. Almost every one of them arrived with some version of the same thing:

“I need more clarity.”

But in our work together, she realized she actually already knew what she wanted. She just didn’t trust it yet.

She would write it in her journal and then look for more information. Her body would signal “yes,” and then she’d spend weeks constructing reasons that feeling wasn’t reliable.

The problem isn’t a lack of clarity. It’s that she’s waiting for a level of certainty that doesn’t come from thinking harder. It comes from learning to trust what she already knows.

Why your mind wants to lead

Women who rely on their thinking mind alone do so because that’s what’s always worked. For every challenge or problem, the analytical mind showed up and solved it. Over time, it becomes the only tool she fully trusts.

Intuition only gets a vote if logic can confirm it. If not, the quiet knowing gets filed under “probably wishful thinking,” and she goes back to thinking.

Then she arrives at a threshold: a chapter that’s ending, a version of herself she can feel just at the edge—close enough to sense but not step into.

Questions about purpose and direction don’t resolve through more analysis. They resolve through a kind of knowing that, for most analytically wired women, has gone almost completely unpracticed.

And when the thinking mind is faced with these questions, it does the only thing it knows: tries harder, seeks more, waits for certainty that feels substantial enough to finally feel safe.

So she keeps circling, looking for information outside of herself, second-guessing what she already knows.

The cost of NOT TRUSTING YOUR INTUITION

The space between knowing and trusting your intuition is where it gets hardest. That in-between where you can sense the life you want, but something still holds you back: doubt disguised as practicality, fear disguised as patience, waiting for a sign that has already arrived.

Every time you override what you sense in favor of what you can explain, you teach yourself that your inner signal isn’t reliable. The connection to your intuition slowly erodes while you’re being very careful (and responsible) about gathering all the information. Accidentally, you’ve lost trust in what you already know.

A client came to me last fall trying to decide whether to leave a stable job for something that felt more aligned but also slightly terrifying.

She’d done everything she was taught to do when making a decision: spreadsheet, pros-and-cons list, conversations with her therapist, her partner, her most trusted friends. She still couldn’t decide.

What surfaced in her Akashic Records reading was how many times she’d gotten a clear signal and immediately gone looking for reasons to distrust it.

She didn’t need more information. She needed someone to access what she already knew at a soul level—through the Akashic Records, which bypass the thinking mind entirely—and reflect it back with enough precision that her analytical brain could finally stop arguing with it.

She left knowing she’d made her decision a long time ago and could finally trust it. And she understood, for the first time, why she’d been stalling.

A space to trust what you know

Over the last six months, I’ve seen this pattern repeat. I’ve heard the same conclusion from different women: “I know what I want. I just don’t trust it enough to act on it.”

That’s why I built Grounded Coven.

I wanted to create a space specifically for women who sense their next step and keep talking themselves out of it. Who knows the life they want but don’t yet trust themselves (said with love) to get there.

Grounded Coven is a space to help you stop second-guessing and trust yourself enough to act, held by other women doing the same inner work.

It’s a three-month group experience for up to ten women that begins and ends with individual Akashic Records readings—and, in between, includes group gathering calls, and a private 24/7 chat to support you as each insight lands and your trust builds.

The themes that surface across those ten individual readings become the foundation for everything we do together. That’s what makes it different: the curriculum is built from what this specific group of women is actually moving through.

By the end of the summer, you won’t just have more clarity, you’ll have a different relationship with your own intuition. You’ll feel more grounded in your decisions and able to trust what you want. And you’ll have other women who supported you through it and aren’t going anywhere.

Four spots are left. Early-bird applications are open through June 10.

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